Monday, September 13, 2010

Fun and Inspiration

Hello! I'm posting a really inspirational kind of like a poem which I found over the internet. I find it motivating and appropriate for everyday. I hope you do too.

G o d S a y s:

You say: "It's impossible."

God says: All things are possible. (Luke 18:27)

You say: "I'm too tired."

God says: I will give you rest. (Matthew 11:28-30)

You say: "Nobody really loves me."

God says: I love you. (John 3:16 & John 13:34)

You say: "I can't go on."

God says: My grace is sufficient. (II Corinthians 12:9 & Psalm 91:15)

You say: "I can't figure things out."

God says: I will direct your steps. (Proverbs 3:5-6)

You say: "I can't do it."

God says: You can do all things. (Philippians 4:13)

You say: "I'm not able."

God says: I am able. (II Corinthians 9:8)

You say: "It's not worth it."

God says: It will be worth it. (Roman 8:28)

You say: "I can't forgive myself."

God says: I FORGIVE YOU. (I John 1:9 & Romans 8:1)

You say: "I can't manage."

God says: I will supply all your needs. (Philippians 4:19)

You say: "I'm afraid."

God says: I have not given you a spirit of fear. (II Timothy 1:7)

You say: "I'm always worried and frustrated."

You say: "I don't have enough faith."

God says: I've given everyone a measure of faith. (Romans 12:3)

You say: "I'm not smart enough."

God says: I give you wisdom. (I Corinthians 1:30)

You say: "I feel all alone."

God says: I will never leave you or forsake you. (Hebrews 13:5)

BTW, US Open Men's finals was delayed for tomorrow. Best of luck for Novak and Rafa. I'm wishing for a 5 set thriller match!

Sunday, September 5, 2010

How I'm Handling Life's Rocky Bump


Hello everyone! You know the feeling when some days some things just go kind of bad? Recently, I had an embarrassing experience that I would rather not go into as much details here but it involves a figure of authority shouting at me and embarrassing me for a mistake I made. During the actual course of that tensed situation, I actually tried to reason myself out. You see, I know what is being demanded by that person but I was not able to provide it instantly because of some qualms I have of its availability. I was able to give what was needed later but that person was already in a bad, bitchy mood. Well, the end of it was that she (the person) shouted at me telling me that I probably do not know what she was asking for in the first place. She made me feel really bad in front of all these other people of authority. I felt so bad and angry later on that whenever I think of it I still feel terrible.

Haaayyy, I guess stuff like this happens to everyone. I mean, it's hard to be criticized but that is something you've got to handle at times, being embarrassed and shouted at however, is not something a person should be subjected in, no matter who the person of authority is. Now, I just tell myself that I will improve and try to do better so that people will not find things to complain or make fun of about my work.

You know what? Posting this incident about that person actually makes me feel better. I mean well, maybe she had a reason to be angry but she did went overboard about her shouting and making comments about me especially since I later provided her with what she needed. She even told other people that I was answering her back when the truth was she was the one who went overboard and embarrassed me in front of others!

I must admit I feel angry towards her, but I am trying to let go. I mean I am human and I am not perfect and I do make mistakes from time to time. The sad part is, not everyone is helpful to you in times when you need some help and understanding.

Have you ever had a similar situation? Well, if you're like me, then you may want to read about some of these few pointers (some I have read also) that I remind myself.

My Reminders on developing a good self- esteem:

1. I am a person with the right to be respected like everyone else.
2. When others make fun of me, I must not encourage them by making jokes about myself in return.
3. I am a person and I do make mistakes from time to time, I have to be patient and be good and understanding to my own self.
4. Most of the time when others are rude, it's because they have a tendency to be rude, so I must not take them personally.
5. I am an intelligent being. Others may criticize me for not knowing what they know, but hey, they are many things I know which they, in return do not know.
6. NO ONE should boast of his or her capabilities because all of it are just lent to people by its true owner: GOD.
7. I must exert myself vigorously in doing good things for GOD and not to please others and gain praise.
8. I am a talented and gifted person and no matter what other people say or think of me, God loves me and sees me beautifully.
9. Other people make mistakes too and I must be good to them also.
10. When I want others to take me seriously, I must speak calmly and respectfully.
11. I have the capacity to make others feel good and loved.
12. God has a purpose for giving me life.
13. I am capable of doing good work.
14. I must try to practice what Jesus always taught: Show mercy to your enemies and forgive them for hurting you.
15. Every day is a new day. People may remember my past mistakes and embarrassments but the important thing is to stay strong, be honest, stay close to God and DO MY BEST!

Hey...That feels soooo good. I actually felt my anger and hurt being less significant. I guess that is the honest road to recovery! I am lorrainekid and it's not good to evr hold grudges so I'm letting it go.

Anyway, its already the BER months are here. It's already the fifth day of September! This season brings on kindred loving spirits and a treasure of past and future good memories! Also, it's the seventh day of the US Open Tennis Grandslams! I wish my favorite player Nadal the very best. I hope he and Federer will battle it out in the finals!!!

Yup! I started my post rather negatively and sadly but now I am ending it with a happy, enlightened note! Thanks everyone and please wait for my upcoming book review! God bless and keep the faith!!!

It's me----lorrainekid :o)